Is true love a dream or a reality?
It is SO hard to determine these days. Most of us have been lied to or cheated on, know someone whose lied or cheated or have had our hearts broken and lies told to our face.
Dating is a vicious game. End of story. Point blank.
Not everyone has the qualities that make a relationship sustainable, whether you’re together or going on dates, the qualities make the person, their character doesn’t change and their motives shouldn’t either.
However, motives and actions DO change in those who aren’t true to the person they are portraying.
Today, one of my best friends found out his girl was going behind his back with another man. In my mind, this would crush me; I could only imagine how he feels. Now you think it would be common sense to those in a relationship to value their partner and their connection but sadly this isn’t always the case for one person in that commitment. So this got me thinking.
IS true love a dream or can it in fact be a reality?..... Yes, there are ups and downs, that’s with life in general. What makes me wonder is WHY is commitment and loving someone who loves you so hard? It shouldn’t be. There shouldn’t be so many curves and dark corners. There shouldn’t be so many fake words and distrusting actions. So how do you determine which is real and fake?
SO many things can be discussed when you ask “is true love a dream or reality because most of us have a cloudy, dreamlike experience where we feel like “true love” isn’t real… my advice?
All I can personally do is be myself. Regardless of those around me or those who chose not to embrace my love and affection. “Everything happens for a reason”. I believe I have a lot to offer so…. All we can do is try and wait…. Wouldn’t that be amazing is “true love” did exist for each of us? :) keep smiling…
True Love can definitely be a reality. Just have to want it when it shows itself. Not sayin to try to make it happen, but to let it. Be completely honest with that person. I think about this a lot but the reason that people have to date for so long or have to get to know others so long is because people really don't know how to really be honest from the get. Think about it. When we are talking to someone that we're interested in, why does it have to just be an interest? Because we have to spend more time to see whats not being shown or said right off hand. If it wasn't for that, we would know within 15 minutes if that is the person we want.
ReplyDeleteThat in mind, True love is limited only by an inability to face reality that the other person truly is what you think In a good way. When you get that in your mind, all the games stop. The doubts cease. The boundaries that limit growth disappear and allow us to open ourselves to what we know is real.
So to answer the question, Yes True Love can be a reality. The only question that I still ask is if its really for everybody.